Practicing Self Love – The life long journey of learning how to love yourself unconditionally.

The core to all of our pure motivations in life, if that is freedom, adventure, getting into a meaningful relationship. Anything, as long as that intention based on doing something to better our lives, is our mind subconsciously on the pursuit to find happiness and contentment. So that we can learn to love yourself, and experience short-term self-love. Our souls already unconditionally loving; it is the nature of being and of God/Source. We choice to come into this life, to identify with this loving source. In addition, separate our self completely from it and experience what it means to be alive. To experience all that live gives us to learn who we are, what we want. We experience so much in life, develop so many scares and hardships that we end up completely forgetting our true nature, and were supposed to experience life. However, after a spiritual awakening and awareness. That is no longer the objective; we are slowly aligning back to our truest core, to realize, that we have developed unhealthy relationships with the self. In addition, begin to love yourself again, experience life beyond what most achieve. To find true peace. In today’s clarity blog, we will be discussing why learning to love yourself is the most difficult and trying things, why we should and what it requires.

Firstly, to reach a space of self-love, we must become honest with ourselves. In addition, authentic to others, that means sharing all that is within you out. That means prioritizing what you truly want, wither that is appropriate or not. That means no longer being around people who you have to change yourself to be around. This is an incredible difficult process to do, and even thinking about competing to it. There is a resistance within, doubt, and logic talking yourself out of it. However once this is down our entire lives improve, we align ourselves and express who we truly are. In a way that is egoless and humble. Also, that means healing to work on all the negative core beliefs, to unveil the ugliest and most painful areas in our lives. To re-experience them all by healing and moving through those. It is tough and painful and we realize our nastiness. A third most vital thing is to integrate all aspects of ourselves, to accept our anger, our envy, and our inner coach potato. Moreover, not to soul identify with the artist, the guru or the social butterfly within. And to be them all integrate them and develop a sense of self that experiences them all. To do this you must look at yourself objectively, picture yourself as a soul, identify as a soul and all these aspects and identity the ego has created are all a part of you.

This process is lifelong and difficult. The key is, to not consider self-love or enlightenment s an escape form reality. As some constant blissful state because it is not, you still experience emotions, mood swing and thoughts. However, they do not control you. Love and accept them .Still experiencing difficult emotions, like anger however, you express it in an enlightened way. Many people try to begin to become this way, and it is tough to do. And it is a learning journey, one may experience times where it is tough and old habits may reemerge. That means that it is time to work even harder and accept that you are only human and to learn to love that within.