Playing the victim

In the world, there are contrast, between wrong & right and correct & incorrect, the circumstance and the victim. Many people identify themselves as a victim, to some circumstance or event, which has caused suffering into their lives. They have a valid reason for feeling victimized, since any form of suffering is caused by thing in life out of our control. However, the ego in order to survive suffering creates and begins heavily identifies itself as the innocent victim who has experienced pain. This story we tell ourselves of how life went on may not be as true as we may think, parts of the story is manipulated and blown out of proportion to cause yourself to pity yourself, and others to pity you. The ego gains attention and an identity dependent on negative circumstance. When trapped in this scenario, we identify so much as a victim that we are unwilling to recognize our power to change things. We beginning becoming vibrational matched to more pain and negativity. We underestimate ourselves, so our expectations will continue to be off suffering. In today’s clarity blog, we are going to be discussing the victim game. In addition, how to finally start winning in life.

First, even though it may feel counter intuitive for a person whom either has or is suffering, is to recognize your responsibility from the situation you are in. How you allow this suffering to take place and your responsibility over it. Do not start blaming yourself, or creating more pity. Look at it through the eyes of an observer over your life. For instance, if you in the past you where bullied severely by the older kids in your school, consider how you were responsible for allowing them to bully you. Form a higher perspective you may have had control over how you reacted to them, you could have ignored them to prevent it. Alternatively, you could have reported it earlier to someone. This proves that in no matter what takes place in life you have some form of power over it, and even though you were a victim to the circumstance, you are not the victim in life. This realization on having some form of control in an out of control situation. The ego does not know how to react in this realization, and will begin either pitying itself or further fuelling more anger.

Consider r ways in which the trailing and upsetting period will or has n=made you a better person. Either teaching you how to handle crisis, overcome any difficulty become more out spoken in your opinion anything. In addition, what drive has emerged from it. Turn the bad situation into a better. Enough way, is to look to a better future. In addition, how you can create the best possible future, using whatever tools you have available.