Conflict- How to resolve all conflict

The world is full of conflicts on multiple different levels, global conflict, personal conflicts and internal conflicts. All conflicts are made by some form of power struggle, leading to attacks and defences from each side. Considers wars which were caused by a deep power struggle, such as the Israelites and Palestine conflict were fighting over control and religious domination over Israel. Enough example is the world wars (ww1 &ww2), when Germany threatened to take over the entirety of Europe. Consider internal power struggles taking place in your mind every day, the power struggles between what your intuition is guiding you to do compared to what your minds saying. In today’s clarity blog, we will be exploring conflicts and ways in which we could resolve them.

When it comes to internal conflicts, they are caused by the same power struggles which cause wars. It’s an inwards conflict. Either a conflict between your emotions, thoughts or your heart and mind. But unlike global conflicts, there is one side of the argument which is not motivated by gaining powers over your thoughts or actions. That side is the calmer voice, of intuition, the heart and the emotions that feels right. Often it is the voice of not just reasoning, but also of clarity. It’s the mind that creates these power dynamic, which conflicts with each over and is the cause of strife. It’s recognising in a scenario of conflict, what thoughts and emotion that are causing the conflicts. The thoughts opposing the intuition, or trying to regain power over a situation.

Whilst personal conflict which takes place in life. A conflict over who’s right over wrong, who does the best or who is the one to blame. We find that when experiencing that sort of conflict in life, wither your personally involved or not. There are power dynamics taking place, no one wants to be wrong and everyone wants to be right. The best way to resolve it is to lessen to each overs viewpoints, encourage the other person to listen and understand you and you have to understand and lessen to them. Then step into their perspective, how they saw things play out. And do whatever feel necessary. For instance, you may get into disagreement over who’s to blame in the house for the debt. You have to simple lessen to our partner, and get them to listen to you. Step into their shoes on they got the loan, and come to a necessary agreement. Deeside as a couple to cut back this Christmas to pay it off, work extra each week. These resolutions may not be the best.

It may appear that every time we observe the news some form of conflict is taking place. And we all feel empathy for those innocent involved in conflicts. Yet it is amazing how complicated and diverse these world conflicts are. Conflicts in politics, wars, neighbourhoods and everywhere. These conflicts, are yet again caused by power struggles, frustrations and the want for control. And to conclude we can say that these conflicts exist as a mirror, of what is taking place and unveiling in all our lives. The power struggles we observe and heart, is taking place externally and internal.