The truth behind Crushes- Love isn’t at first sight

Growing up, we have all fantasize about meeting the one and you instantly connect with this person by gazing into their loving eyes. You automatically meet your one true love, your twin flame and everything’s perfect. Sorry to rain on your parade yet that’s not exactly true. When we have a crush, it may feel as though you have met the one. But that intense desire you feel when you have a crush is not just love, there are over layers to it. And meeting your twin flame is a more complex matter than a simple crush. Today’s clarity blog is going to give a refreshing option on crushes and the truth behind why you have them.

That instantaneous desire that rises when you have a crush, that feeling of awe you experience is just simple sexual attraction. It is pheromones and offer hormonal reaction inside causing you to develop feelings. Which is natural and normal. Yet it means very little, but it is what encourages you to have that interaction and develop a relationship. So technically at first sight it is not love, it is natural eagers inside. It’s good not to get overly attached to those sensations experienced when first gazing upon a person.

The reason also the reason towards why we experience an instance crush, is possible because of a curtain quality they have that you don’t have and desperately want. To go in-depth, we energetically read those around us with our auras, when were close or in the same space as someone, they are invading that space. We pick up on that offer people’s quality’s, and sometimes make a constant reaction. Also we may consciously pick up on that person’s characteristics. For example, a person next to you appears very laid back almost bad boy type. Whilst you automatically pick up on that. The psyche picks up with that. And to say If you’re a very smart, sensible and good girl type. That person is the way they are because of characteristics they learned when they are younger. The quality desired by our parents and those around us are made aware by us at a young age, were either told ‘your nice kid’ or ‘your trouble’. We create an identity out of that. And suppress those behaviours that are not recognised or encouraged by those around us. Those offer quality we dismiss are still parts of our psyche, they are aspects we are trying to regain later in life. Either by rebelling from what our parents taught us, or becoming 100% what they told us. When we meet people with those opposing quality, we instantaneously feel love. Because there is a desire to reunite that aspect which is gone. It’s beneficial to rekindle those by spending time with people who have them. This is why you see the hole ‘Good girl’ ‘bad boy’ relationship dynamics. Or the opersites attract saying, since it’s true.

When it comes to twin flames, they are more of a complex thing. We may not feel the desire and crush on them. You may just be friends, or colleagues. It’s when discovering their personality and getting to know them is when you feel that desire. They may bring out the best quality in you, and vice versa. A beneficial relationship, when it’s not just simple regaining suppressed aspects of your psyche.