Trick or Treat. Are the People around you Honest and How to Spot a Lyre?

When a person in your life knocks on your door asking “Trick or Treat”, you hand them an exchange and conversation trusting that you have ensured that person won’t try and trick you in the future. Since you have shown you’re a perfectly good person, they seem very humble and it’s nice to be friendly and generous with people. But occasionally that person can stab you in the back, be dishonest or simple lie to you for no reason yet simple to gain your attention. This may only take place a couple of times in your life, but depending on how much of an exchange and trust you gave that person you still require some healing. You may want to find ways from preventing it from happening in the future, become more cautious. It is hard to tell what offers are masking and wither they are truthful or not. In today’s clarity blog I will be guiding you through my personal way of solving the question of how honest people are around you and tips to spot a lyre.

Whilst talking to a dishonest person, they may talk and behave in a nice way. Share a few jokes and offer something small like a drink or a mint. But in all encounters with dishonest people they are very forceful, they expect you to automatically like them and trust them, so they may offer something more to you quickly. Come across a little more generous. Your disillusioned and feeling very flattered by theirs offers. Making it very difficult to say no. But that’s only in a couple of the cases. The best advice I can give, is to simple delay sometime to think. Allow yourself to see what is really going on, may ask someone who knows this person some questions about them. Do a little bit of research and ask that person questions. Be clear and be honest with yourself.

Sometimes dishonest people may just say something that seems a bit off. When they make this statement something in your gut finds it difficult to believe. Lessen to both the gut instinct and wat they are saying. Question what that person has just said, integrate them without making it clear that you distrust them. Use something like ‘Really? so when/where/who/how did this take place?’ Or comment on it and say ‘That sounds good/bad/interesting/?’. Any subtle comment that will get them talkng. You can tell, often it can be very difficult for them to reply. Or they reply with another unbelievable thing, with a few plot holes. If so question them some more. Depending on how well you might know this person your able to just tell. Or if you don’t really know this person follow your gut and backway. Especial in a social event, but don’t think spitefully about it. Don’t treat this person differently, in fact feel some sympathy for the fact they don’t feel comfortable enough tube honest.

If someone has seriously lied about something, and are being dishonest trying to cause conflict and tension. It’s very keen that you approach them with that problem. Give them a pieces of events, you can tell by how the immediately react. How their eyes on, if they look shocked or facially appear arouse towards the events? Yet deny it say some something very steps then they are denying it.

To conclude, dishonest people are actually easily spotted. If you pay attention to the small print. When a person knocks on your door asking trick or treat, be the person you are. Smile and behave kindly, but quickly shut it if they are clearly a lyre.