The Narcissist Under Sheep’s Clothing

We all have met nasty people in life who appear to be decent people, but after getting to know them, they reveal their true colours. The first thing that comes to mind after hearing ‘Narcissist’, is a self-centred individual who loves themselves way too much. Which is true, but these personality types are more complex. In this clarify blog here are some symptoms of a Narcissist.

• They are good functioning people; they might be in professions which require them to give to offers such a nurse, or journalist. They make a big deal on how great, caring and giving they are. Convince you that you owe them something, like time, affection, favours. And they are very forceful about this. The second you answer back, they turn sharply and use your guilt against you.

• When unhappy (which is often) they tend to need to draw as much attention as possible. They may weep in the corner, have a complete tantrum thronging and smashing things or act passive aggressive. Anything to gain attention, lure you in so they can complain and make you feel bad about yourself. Then just move on… No thanks.

• You feel drained or tired with these people. They may repeat themselves over and over. Constantly talk about how bad their marriage is, or how work stresses them. In these story’s they always place the blame on someone or event. They love to be in your energy, and draining it with their story’s.

• They blame everyone but themselves, they can’t have the responsibility in being in the wrong. Even If it were their own fault. They cause the person there blaming it on to become isolated, they may share their thoughts with everyone and make life a living hell. Narcissist have the power to pursued people very quickly.

• There Overly opionated, their views are the only right ones They are willing to stand for their views and you can never debate them. Because they aren’t willing to listen.

All Narcissist have been brought up with a Narcissistic parent/guardian and struggled with issues on trying to gain their attention, never feeling appreciated or cared for. So at a young age they ensure they amongst all of siblings are the favoured and receive all the love. They may achieve high in school, gain good skill and become very smart. Once they feel like they are clearly the favoured, they feel the need to make siblings appear inadequate. That’s how they gained all their skill, these people are smart. The only issue I that they have become servery sensitive, they can’t deal with being alone with their thoughts and feelings. Because the second there completely alone and not the centre, they feel rejected. It’s quite sad. They may never grow from this mentality; they can never change.

Consider Celebrities who are narcissist, they are all so similar. Now I have helped you expose a Narcissist in your life, and its clearly cut who is or isn’t now. It’s good to recognise that these people never change