Not feeling liked

In life we all encounter people who we either really enjoy being around and individual we can’t stand, were all individuals, with personality’s. Majority of the time it is nice to think that you are liked by offers around you, but when you meet someone who makes it quite clear they don’t like you. It can feel as though you’ve been persecuted. Especially if you have to see that person on a daily or have some authority over you. From this blog post, you expect the typical ‘just love your neighbours and get to know that person more’ which is all healthy advice. But here’s some great advice’s.

Simply distance yourself, keep away from that person and trying to prove yourself. It’s good to meditate and think back to the first time you where disliked, either as a baby by a relative. Or at the first day of school, were you realise not everyone’s your best friend. Hug and embarrass that child and remind them that you are liked. It’s important to pay attention to that child within that just wants to be loved and embrace. We don’t have to trip over ourselves and change the circumstances. Tell that child they don’t have to prove a thing to anyone.

On the addition grow to realise it’s not you who is unlikable, t may be something entirely different. It could be a curtain attitude you hold that that person hasn’t got. That’s understandable. The ego compares ourselves from the worlds around us to gain an individual identity and conceptualise who you are. And often, comparing ourselves to much can cause more issue. Find a singular similarity with that person, and leave it as that. Two separate people and let go.