The Tranquillity of Speeding Time Alone

An epidemic has emerged; I have realised that more people around me are now speeding more time alone running choices or enjoying free time at home. It is now acceptable to turn around to your friends and say how you would rather spend time relaxing later on and to go out with them enough time. And this is great, since it means we are becoming less reliant on each over. Yet on the same topic, we have begun worrying about how much time we spend alone, thinking that we spend too much time alone. I’m telling you to abandon those thoughts and to begin to find more company in yourself.

When you spend time introverted and alone you are reviewing through your day’s events of your week. It helps to make sense of things. Hobby’s that you do alone such as excursive, read or watch movies all help to keep your mind stable and to begin to think for yourself. Relentless studies have shown that the people yourself with influence your thought and behaviour, we all feels the need to conform. When we begin to spend time on our own we can spend time actually behaving the way which you as an individual would act. It is great. Spending time alone makes making the right actions and saying the right things to people which is authentic is great.

Naturally we humans are social animals spending times in packs, we feel the need to share our emotions and thoughts around us. The more time spend alone, we are less likely to gossip on offers and cause drama since we become more occupied in ourselves. Gossip is basically mental vomit we give off offers when we have run out of something useful to say about ourselves and lives. The best way to prevent gossip or lying is to spend more time on our own, so when we are around offers we speak about more meaningful things.

Feeling lonely and being alone are too every different thing, being alone is an action one takes. While feeling lonely is a sensation caused for any reason of isolation. I have surrounded myself in the past with people who truly are horrible and rude and I have felt the loneliest I have ever been even though I am surrounded by offers. While when I physically am alone, I don’t feel the same sensation. Yet people mistake spending time alone to being lonely and having nothing interesting to do. There is a famous phrase “to have no company is better than having bad company” which in my personal opion is great.

Spending time with people you resonate with is great, and spending time with yourself doing things you enjoy is great as well. The more time spend alone the more you see the importance of spending time with good people you get along with. And that’s a lesson that I had to teach myself during School.